The Unsexy Book of Dating

rawlands: mapsofmymind: velvetlovepocket: “If You Know...

Mon, 17 Jun 2013 08:17:47 -0400

mapsofmymind:

velvetlovepocket:

“If You Know Someone Who Doesn’t Believe Sexism Exists, Show Them This”
Link here: [x]

This is really cool. I don’t wanna say I’m excited to utilize this, but it’s nice to know it’s there when and if the time comes.

YES. THIS

When a guy is hot, but also kind of a d-bag

Mon, 17 Jun 2013 08:08:00 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

What happens when @StephanieDrury attempts the "62 Things To Say To Make Your Husband Feel Great" experiment.

Sun, 16 Jun 2013 07:37:09 -0400

stephaniedrury:

I followed the suggestions of this article on a Christian website and took screencaps of my husband’s responses.

WIL WHEATON dot TUMBLR: kellysue: flatbear: Hi. So, I’ve been lurking around your blog for...

Sun, 16 Jun 2013 07:17:49 -0400

WIL WHEATON dot TUMBLR: kellysue: flatbear: Hi. So, I’ve been lurking around your blog for...:

kellysue:

flatbear:

Hi. So, I’ve been lurking around your blog for close to a year now (no tumblr account, afraid it will eat my life if I join), and trying to get my courage up to write this for a couple of months. I’m from a super-conservative family in a super-conservative part of…

When someone gives me unsolicited dating advice

Sun, 16 Jun 2013 07:11:56 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

theuppitynegras: youngbadmanbrown: searchingforknowledge: amus...

Fri, 14 Jun 2013 01:51:41 -0400

theuppitynegras:

youngbadmanbrown:

searchingforknowledge:

amuseoffirebane:

newvagabond:

Making a separate post of this because IT’S NOT TRUE, NOOO, STAWP SPREADING ITTTT.

Don’t mean to hijack a post to say NO U R WRONG but I keep seeing this post and that’s not what the song is about.

It’s calling the MEN the dogs because they’re running around panting and woofing at women.

“I heard a woman shout out—who let the dogs out?”

Then we see women as dog-catchers.

And a dog jumping up trying to get on a lady.

“Get back cruffy, back scruffy,

Get back you flea infested mongrel”

Is meant to be a woman telling a dog (a guy) to leave her alone.

Then there’s “to any girls callin’ them canine”. Clearly the women are calling the men dogs here.

“Say, a doggy is nuttin’ if he don’ have a bone” HE. Doggy is nuttin’ if HE.

“Well, if I am a dog, the party is on

I gotta get my groove ‘cause my mind done gone”

Dude’s acknowledging that he may be one of those guys at parties/clubs.

“Me and my white short shorts

And I can’t see color, any color will do

I’ll stick on you, that’s why they call me ‘Pit bull’”

He can’t see color, HE is the dog.

So don’t be crushed. It’s a song about guys acknowledging that other guys can be brazen and annoying when hitting on women when they just wanna have a ball at the club and dance.

OH THANK GOODNESS

THANK GOODNESS

wait

did the baha-men really make a hit song addressing the harassment of women?

well check y’all out

letsmakeloaf: guys why is it called the walk of shame and not the laid parade

Fri, 14 Jun 2013 01:48:59 -0400

letsmakeloaf:

guys why is it called the walk of shame

and not the laid parade

When someone posts about how great their boyfriend is

Thu, 13 Jun 2013 21:30:48 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

Do I just give off a dominatrixy vibe?

Wed, 12 Jun 2013 19:48:20 -0400

Do I just give off a dominatrixy vibe?

And then, just when I was starting to regain faith in online...

Tue, 11 Jun 2013 17:09:55 -0400

And then, just when I was starting to regain faith in online dating…

Couples who talk in a baby voice

Tue, 11 Jun 2013 01:57:37 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

feraligaytor: when u make a bad first impression on someone u wanted to become friends with

Mon, 10 Jun 2013 13:30:30 -0400

feraligaytor:

when u make a bad first impression on someone u wanted to become friends with

"They hugged goodbye, and when she pressed her body against him, he felt the softness of her flesh..."

Mon, 10 Jun 2013 01:13:58 -0400

“They hugged goodbye, and when she pressed her body against him, he felt the softness of her flesh through the layers of clothing. It was a hug that was just the right pressure, not so soft that it was a meaningless formality, and held for a second of two longer than necessary. It was a prelude to a deeper embrace, a hug that said, pay attention, there’s something here.”

- Jack Cheng, These Days (via maxistentialist)

When a really good looking person says hi to me

Sun, 09 Jun 2013 00:32:46 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

Love at my age

Sat, 08 Jun 2013 05:11:53 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

Some people:

Me:

Photo

Sat, 08 Jun 2013 05:06:47 -0400

How I handle rejection

Sat, 08 Jun 2013 05:02:24 -0400

whatshouldwecallme:

When I was younger:

Now:

"It’s not that a G rating gets in the way of making money. Pixar-Disney has figured out the formula...."

Fri, 07 Jun 2013 00:19:41 -0400

“

It’s not that a G rating gets in the way of making money. Pixar-Disney has figured out the formula. They’ve had the top-ranked G-rated film every year but one in the past decade — from Ratatouille and Wall-E to The Princess and the Frog and Tangled.

But other studios aiming at kids’ audiences have done just as well, if not better, without the G. Every one of the big animated franchises not made by Pixar-Disney is rated PG — including Despicable Me, Ice Age, Kung Fu Panda and Madagascar. And Pixar goes there, too — with the likes of The Incredibles, Brave and Up.

G may still mean suitable for general audiences, but parents seem to have decided it means suitable for babies. And that means even animation is trending away from the G.

”

- When ‘G’ Movies Are For Kids, Do Kids Avoid ‘G’ Movies? : Monkey See : NPR (via npr)

Ummmmwut?

Wed, 05 Jun 2013 10:20:13 -0400

Ummmmwut?

Sometimes I’m much nicer to these numbskulls than they...

Wed, 05 Jun 2013 09:36:40 -0400

Sometimes I’m much nicer to these numbskulls than they deserve.